WEBSITE

PLEASE GO TO WWW.KARENISRAEL.COM
FOR MY OFFICIAL WEBSITE!

Forgiveness

Check out an article for which I was interviewed! Thank you to writer Franchesca Guzman and www.examiner.com Dallas edition!

http://www.examiner.com/relationships-in-dallas/forgiveness

Setting Up Online Therapy Sessions

It's simple! Just send an email to

karen.israel@gmail.com

and I will guide you through the rest!

Online Therapy Now Available

Dear current and prospective patients,

I am broadening the scope of my counseling practice to include Online Therapy.

You will see at the top right of my page, the Online Therapy Messenger box. This box functions the same as any other private messenger system. The instant messaging chat session is secure and completely private, ensuring your confidentiality.

When you send me a private and confidential message through my website, you will see our conversation in that window. Others logging onto the website, at the same time, will not be able to see the conversation taking place.

Who would be a good candidate for online therapy?

1) Individuals who, for varied reasons, cannot make/find the time to come in for a face-to-face session (work, children, distance, disability).

2) Current patients who want to have a session but cannot fit a face-to-face meeting in their schedules.

3) Prospective patients who would feel more comfortable receiving therapy through this medium.

How do I go about setting up online therapy sessions?

Send an email to karen.israel@gmail.com letting me know that you are interested in online therapy. You will receive my intake forms which include informed consent information, confidentiality clauses, scheduling options, and payment and cancellation information. You will be able to fill out these forms through email, and once all is complete and your session time has come, we will begin with you sending me a private and confidential message through my website.

I'm very excited about this new addition to my practice and I hope for this to be a fulfilling option for any of you seeking therapy/counseling who cannot or do not choose the face-to-face medium.

Looking forward to working with you!

-Karen Israel

How do I get started with counseling?

This is a question I hear quite often when new patients call. So, I'll outline here, very simply, how it works in my practice.

When a prospective patient calls, I like to get a brief understanding of why they are interested in counseling and what they would like to get out of it.

I explain my diagnostic session process through which I discover the presenting problem(s), what the patient's hopes and expectations are for the counseling process, and the insight they have into their current situation. All of this will help me build a treatment plan for future sessions and ensure that the patient has every opportunity to focus on the goals they have set.

Another questions I hear often is "How many sesions will it take?"

The number of sessions anticipated to help a patient reach their therapeutic goals is virtually impossible to guess. I suggest you allow yourself the freedom to work as fast or as slowly as you need, with no time-limit. This process is for you, so be patient.

When the patient is ready to schedule a session, I will collect general information by phone such as name, address, phone number, and credit card information to secure their session time. Such information is kept in the strictest confidence, so there is no need to worry.

All that is left is to finally meet and begin the journey that will hopefully bring you closer to the life you want to lead!

Looking forward to working with you,
Karen Israel

Why choose Karen Israel to help you?

Choosing a therapist, counselor, or personal coach is an important process that requires information and thought. Allow me to help you make that choice.

I have been a psychotherapist in the Dallas area for 10 years helping all types of people with the issues that interfere with thier lives. I have a bachelor's degree in Psychology and a master's degree in Counseling Psychology.

Countless couples, individuals, and adolescents have benefitted from my counseling process, and I have been so happy to be a part of their personal growth.

Issues like depression recovery, anger management, low self esteem, trauma recovery, assertiveness training, relationship healing and many others have presented themselves in my office. Through the success of my clients, past and present, and the excellent training and education I have received, I feel exceptionally capable to help people find their way out of their difficulties.

I truly care about each and every one of my patients and my number one goal is to help them make the changes that will better their lives- be they large or small. I can be firm when needed, and very caring when matters are emotionally challenging.

This work has been truly rewarding and I look forward to the successful years ahead and the wonderful people I will meet. I trust that whomever is reading this, finds the best therapist for themselves. I hope to be the one for you.

Sincerely,
Karen Israel, LPC

Turn 'Want' into 'Have'

It's simple... to change what you want into what you have, all you must do it give that desire a little attention.

The more you think about your goal, *merely think about it*, the more it goes from being a conscious thought to a subconscios drive. It will now permeate everything you do throughout the day. This consistent and simple attention to what you want will soon become a reality!

Spend a little time each day, or throughout the day, meditating on your goals. Think of it as self-hypnosis. Envision them coming to fruition. Your thoughts will turn into actions, and the actions will ensure that you reach your goals!

Simple Payment Option

Hello to all Prospective Patients,

I have now added a PayPal icon for easier payment! This can be used in lieu of cash or check payment and also to secure your initial diagnostic appointment.

I look forward to working with you.

Sincerely,
Karen Israel, LPC

Asking For Help

Sometimes we get so used to the status quo; the uncomfortable comfortability of our old habits, that we are afraid to make any changes or don't even realize that we have choices. We offer up so many excuses, to others or simply in our own heads, that we can't do anything about our problems. Excuses like:

1) It's out of my hands

2) I don't know how

3) I've tried and my efforts didn't work

4) It'll/He'll/She'll/They'll never change

5) It's just too hard

Well, I'm here to tell you, respectfully, that you are wrong :) And the solution to your error lies in three words...all you must do is take the chance and ASK FOR HELP.

::enter the next slew of excuses::

1) I don't think anyone can help

2) I can't afford it

3) I give up

If you find someone who seems trustworthy; someone who could understand and offer empathy; someone you feel comfortable with, then give yourself a chance. Give them a chance, they may surprise you. Therapists and counselors are here to help... help you see your choices, help you take charge of what happens to you.

If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten.

Excuse or Reason?

What's the differnece between...an Excuse and a Reason? The answer to this question can teach you how to overcome your barriers to change and free you to take the necessary responsibility for your life.

Let's begin with the Excuse. First of all, the Excuse naturally serves to excuse us from our bad behavior. Unfortunately, there is seldom an honest excuse for that. The Excuse is our way of shrugging repsonsibility for what we said or did that hurt or offended someone-- whether intentional or not. We use the Excuse as a defense mechanism to keep from feeling appropriate guilt or shame for our wrongdoings. Based on the particular offense, this guilt or shame occurs on a continuum: from very mild to very severe. However we have offended others, or even ourselves, the healthiest thing to do is to hold ourselves accountable. This is part of being an adult.

Now, let's explore the Reason. The reason serves to explain the events that lead up to our transgression. It offers and opportunity for us, as well as others, to understand and perhaps better accept what has transpired. The Reason does not Excuse our bad behavior. Exploring the reasons behind an offense is the first step to accountability for our words and actions.

The next step is to learn from the reasons, identify patterns, pay attention to behaviors, and make the choice to change.

So, next time you make a mistake, mild or grave... will you offer an excuse? Or find the reason and become accountable?

Assertiveness Training Classes for Men and Women

1. Do you notice that saying no is very difficult for you?

2. Do you feel taken advantage of by those close to you?

3. Do you feel obligated to please everyone else but yourself?

4. Has anyone ever told you that you are too nice?

5. Do you sometimes resent the people you do so much for even though you love them?

Both men and women struggle with poor boundaries-- the ability to say NO as well as YES and feel good about it.

If any of these statements describe your life and behaviors, then you could benefit from my Assertiveness Training Classes. The classes will be done in individual as well as group sessions- whichever makes you feel most comfortable.

Please email or call to inquire about scheduling and fees.

Now Accepting All Major Credit Cards

Due to popular demand and my deisre to make mental health more financially manageable, I am now accepting all major credit cards as payment!

Please, if you read this blog and identify with

any of the issues mentioned...

Call Me. I Can Help You.

Enhanced Fall Discount!

To all Prospective clients:

I am offering a fall discount valid today through December 31, 2009.

Sessions paid 2 weeks in advance will be discounted to $90 each and sessions paid 1 month in advance will be discounted to $85 per session!

Compared to the usual $110.00 fee, you will receive up to $100.00 in savings- a virtual free session!

Please let me know that you read this blog to receive the discount.

Looking forward to working with you!
Sincerely,
Karen Israel, LPC

Is Sex Therapy Right For You?

Concerns about sex and intimacy are common. At some point, nearly a third of all men and a half of all women have a significant concern related to sexual function, sexual feelings or intimacy. Sex therapy can help. A type of talk therapy (counseling), sex therapy is done by a psychologist or a licensed counselor with special training in issues related to sex and relationships. Sex therapy is an effective tool for people of different ages, genders and sexual orientation. Sex therapy can be helpful whether you are single or in a relationship.

How is sex therapy done?
Your sex therapist will start off by talking to you about your concerns. Sexual issues can be complicated, and your therapist will want to get a clear idea of all the factors involved. Once you and your sex therapist talk about the issues you've raised, your therapist will discuss ways to resolve your concerns and help you learn skills and techniques to improve your communication and intimacy.

If you're in a relationship, it's usually most helpful to involve your partner in meetings with your sex therapist. Typically a sex therapist will have you and your partner do a series of homework exercises. These may include reading about sexual techniques, slowing down and focusing on what you're sensing during sexual encounters and changing the way you interact with your partner during sex. As sex therapy progresses, you will use your home experiences to further identify and refine what you'd like to work on.

Concerns about sex and intimacy are often linked to other underlying issues. These can include psychological issues such as stress, anxiety or depression. In some cases, sexual function is affected by chronic illness, side effects of medication or surgery. Depending on your concerns, seeing only a sex therapist may be enough. Or, your sex therapist may be part of a team that includes your doctor, psychologist or physical therapist.

What kind of concerns do sex therapists address?
Sex therapy can help resolve a wide range of concerns about sexual function, feelings that affect your sex life, or the way you relate to your partner.

Examples include:
Concerns with sexual arousal or sexual interest
Compulsive sexual behavior
Concerns about sexual interests and sexual orientation
Erectile dysfunction
Ejaculating too quickly (premature ejaculation)
Trouble reaching orgasm
Painful intercourse
Problems with penetration

Isn't it embarrassing to talk about sex?
Talking about sex and intimacy can feel awkward. But don't worry — sex therapists are trained to make you feel comfortable and will understand your reservations. It can also be tough to communicate clearly with your partner about sex. A sex therapist can help you learn to express yourself clearly and better understand your partner's needs.

How long does sex therapy take?
Some concerns can be addressed quickly, in just a few visits. But to be effective, a number of counseling sessions are often required, usually weekly or once every two weeks for several months. During the first meeting, your counselor will talk with you about what to expect, how many sessions you'll need and how often you'll meet.

How much does sex therapy cost?
Counseling can cost as much as $150 or more a session, but sex therapy is covered by many health insurance policies. Check with your insurance provider ahead of time to make sure counseling is covered by your policy, or have your counselor's office check for you.

Is sex therapy right for you?
You may decide to see a sex therapist for a sexual problem that you've had for a long time, or it may be something new. You may know exactly why you're having a sexual issue; or you may have no idea. Whatever the case, sex therapy could help you cope with or resolve problems linked to sex or intimacy, whether you go to sessions by yourself or with a partner. While some people have unrealistically high expectations about what to expect, sex and romance should be something enjoyable. If sex is stressful or difficult, seeing a sex therapist can help.

Excerpts taken from MSN Health and Fitness

Say NO and Feel Good About It!

So much of my work is about teaching people healthy personal boundaries. A simple definition of boundaries is the ability to say NO and feel good about it so that you can say YES and feel good about it.

I found a great article that offers 10 examples on how to start setting boundaries by telling you what to say, how it works, and why you shouldn't feel guilty!

Read The Article!

Wishing You Healthy Boundaries,
Karen Israel, M.Ed., LPC

Compromise.. it's easier than you think!

Another fabulous and simply phrased article from MSN Lifestyle. It is written with one spouse in mind; however, these pointers can be applied to any working (read functioning) relationship between two or more people.

ENJOY THE ARTICLE

What is Your Love Type?

Here is a great article I read on MSN Lifestyle about Dr. Helen Fisher and her wonderful research on relationships and compatibility.

Read these short yet informative pages about her "4 Love Types" and find out which one you are!

CLICK HERE TO READ ARTICLE

Wisdom a la Fortune Cookie

A man who trims himself to suit everybody will soon whittle himself away.

Wise Fortune Cookie

Life is not about chance...

but about Change.

A Lil' Bit'O Love

The people who really care about you don't mind if you make mistakes.

It's what you do next that matters.